Weaving Poems: The Contemplative Arts at Bethany House

This past summer as I walked in my garden, I noticed a massive spider’s web strung between a hosta and a large hydrangea. At its center was the largest spider I’d ever seen, a bright yellow blaze on her back. The web she had laboriously spun resembled a page from a 9th century illuminated manuscript, dramatic with italic dashes in purest white.

A quick consult of my insect guide revealed a marvelous find: she was an Argiope aurantia, known in common parlance as a Writer’s Spider!

As a poet, and facilitator of the Bethany House of Prayer Contemplative Writing Group, you can imagine my delight. Nature’s muse had been lying in plain sight, just waiting for me to see her – as the Holy Spirit so often does. I dashed back outside with pen and notebook, to study the magnificent gossamer of dreams right at my back door.

I joined the Colleagues group at Bethany House of Prayer more than 20 years ago drawn to the value placed on poetry and art as cherished pillars of our identity, and woven into our founding charism. Anchored in the exquisite stained glass, stone and choir stalls of the century-old chapel that visitors see when they arrive for a retreat or Evening Eucharist, we have consistently created for all who come to us beautiful programs rich with poems, reflections and artwork. When COVID forced us online, we continued to emphasize nourishing contemplative art digitally, during our Evening Contemplative Practice, Evening Eucharist and Contemplative Prayer programs.

Many at Bethany House – Colleagues, members of the Board, Sisters -- are makers of art. We understand art as a sacred practice, whether we write poems, paint, take photographs, dance or make collages. Art-making requires the attentiveness, receptivity, and practice that dwell at the heart of all holy work. When we open ourselves to the tender lessons of ordinary life-- spiders, fallow winter fields, a folk song, the words of others, and of course, Scripture -- we grow beyond our smaller selves into beings with depth and range, able to engage creatively and constructively with the life around us.

Mary Oliver, as always, expresses this outflow of love and longing in a stanza of her poem, “On Thy Wondrous Works I Will Meditate:”

Every morning I want to kneel down on the golden
cloth of the sand and say
some kind of musical thanks for
the world that is happening again – another day –
from the shawl of wind coming out of the
     west to the firm green
flesh of the melon lately sliced open and
     eaten, its chill and ample body
flavored with mercy. I want
to be worthy of – what? Glory? Yes, unimaginable glory.
O Lord of melons, of mercy, though I am 
not ready, nor worthy, I am climbing toward you.

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Thirst

Two on-going offerings at Bethany House currently nurture the creative life: the Contemplative Writing Group, and the writing crawls offered by Jim Meyer in the chapel. Kimberly Green, another poet and affiliate, offers occasional Saturday workshops, and our upcoming Advent retreat will provide opportunity for creative activities.
As we anticipate an exciting new chapter in our life with the appointment of a new Executive Director, we hope to expand our creative programs to include art festivals, journal writing groups and creative workshops.

We invite your participation, your voices, and your prayers, as we nourish the seeds of contemplative creativity here at Bethany House of Prayer. Meanwhile, we invite you to converse with the spiders and winter pods in your gardens, read poetry, and gather images that speak to your heart. Let us hear from you!

Kathleen Hirsch
www.kathleenhirsch.com

(Note: The Writing Crawls will take a pause in December to make room for our Advent Retreat day. They will pick up again in January.)

Small Things Done with Great Love by Trustee Liz Williams

Bethany House of Prayer Colleagues, Staff and the Board of Trustees work together to allow the many ministries of our beloved sacred space to flourish. And yet there are some “unsung heroes” among us, who do small acts of generosity and kindness with great love.

This month we pause for a moment to give thanks for the kind and generous spirits of Rosie Almeida, Susan Morrison and Jim Meyer. Rosie and Susan participate in a lovely flower ministry, adorning the Bethany House meeting places and retreatants’ rooms with flower arrangements from the Bethany House of Prayer gardens and Susan’s own garden in Marblehead.

Jim Meyer extends his already wonderful ministry of hospitality, in which he provides soups and breads for retreatants, with his gifts of enticing homemade scones. May we give thanks for these unsung heroes and their gifts that bring beauty and warmth to all those who seek hospitality at Bethany House of Prayer.

~ Trustee, Liz Williams

Bethany House as Chrysalis by Trustee Katie Rimer

“Suspended upside down in the heart of the question, we touch the sacred spaces of real becoming.”  -Sue Monk Kidd, When the Heart Waits

I discovered Sue Monk Kidd’s memoir in the mid-1990s while working on Capitol Hill. The contrast between my shiny job in the U.S. House of Representatives and the year I had just spent working with impoverished families in Bogota, Colombia, had me spiritually disoriented.  Kidd’s meditation about passionate waiting on God during seasons of not knowing shaped the posture of my heart.   The idea of active waiting - not passive - forged my capacity to sit with holy questions and sense that God was at work.  Kidd taught me that just as a chrysalis contains the transformation of a butterfly, so too my heart can bring forth new life, with the right intention, the right action, and God’s grace.   

I have returned to this metaphor of the chrysalis and the butterfly during this season of transition at Bethany House of Prayer. In conversations with the Sisters of St. Anne, the Colleagues and the Board of Trustees, I have watched us listen deeply to each other, clarify roles, reaffirm our covenants, and shore up the ‘container’ of Bethany House of Prayer.  Together we have renewed and deepened our capacity to be a place of refuge for those who come to Bethany House to rekindle their connection to God.  We have trusted God’s good work deep in the spirit of this place as we prepare to call a new Executive Director.   

Already new life presses forward:  in the hiring of Alice Killian as Office Administrator and Retreat House Manager, in the Colleague leadership provided by Christi Humphrey, Kimberly Green, and Kathleen Hirsch, in the abiding generosity of the Sisters, in the wise stewardship by the Board, in the careful, fertile work of the Search Committee.  The Colleagues are gathering for an in-person retreat in November and will welcome the larger community during Advent. Retreat groups continue to access our beautiful spaces. The Transition Committee meets faithfully each week, and the ongoing Contemplative Prayer, Worship, Spiritual Direction, Writing and Hospitality ministries nurture the souls of those who attend. 

Together we have waited passionately on God in prayer and action so that others who come to Bethany House can do the same, as they always have, confident that the ‘chrysalis’ of Bethany House of Prayer can hold them.   Thank you for participating in this holy work, for trusting the process and for believing in the promise of new wings.

 

Kidd, Sue Monk. 1990. When the Heart Waits: Spiritual Direction for Life’s Sacred Questions. San Francisco: Harper & Row.

September, 2024

Picture: Artem Beliaikin on Unsplash

Let All Guests Who Arrive Be Received Like Christ
The Rule of St. Benedict

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they’re a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

Rumi, translated by Coleman Barks

This September Bethany House is experiencing a time of farewelling and welcoming. Cathy Venkatesh, Bethany’s intrepid Office Administrator, has completed her long and faithful tenure here. And as this month unfolds, Lucy Roosevelt, who has served as Bethany’s bookkeeper almost since its inception, is also bringing to a close her many years of devoted service. Both of them have rendered invaluable service to Bethany House. Their work has been not only practical, but also spiritual. Both have offered a spirit of welcome to all who come here, embodying the signature hospitality that is one of the central charisms of Bethany House. We bid them both farewell and Godspeed, with deep gratitude for who they are and for all that they have added to the life of this community.

But this is also a time of arriving and welcome. Just after Labor Day, Alice Killian began her work as Bethany’s new Office Administrator-Retreat House Manager. Alice is receiving training this month from both Cathy and Lucy, as the duties that Cathy and Lucy previously covered have been folded into Alice’s position. Please join me in extending a warm welcome to Alice, and grant her patient understanding as she learns the ropes here. For now, Alice's schedule of work at Bethany House will be on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday mornings.

Alice (pictured above) is a graduate of Harvard, lives in Harvard Square and is the Junior Warden at St James’s Episcopal Church in Porter Square, where she also runs the church school. By her own account, Alice is very outgoing and loves people and all other animals. She also does a lot of other volunteer work, as well as working as a caregiver. Alice says: "My ambition is to move a bit further Mary-ward along the Martha-Mary spectrum, but so far the needle hasn’t budged."

In addition to welcoming Alice, I invite you into the daily practice of opening yourself – heart, mind, and soul – to become more and more a guest house, as Rumi put it in the poem above. By opening yourself to be a guest house, your spirit becomes more thoroughly a part of Bethany House’s ministry of welcome to all who come here. In addition, the contemplative practice of welcoming whatever the Spirit sends also helps prepare you for the next big welcome that Bethany anticipates, as the search for Bethany’s new Executive Director continues.

This is also my last newsletter to you as I conclude on September 24 my time as Bethany’s Transition Director. It has been a joy and a privilege to be among you these past six months. This is a special place, vital to both the church and the wider world. Thank you for being who you are and for the gifts you offer through this place that make it a place of nurture and growth for so many. As St. Benedict counseled, you have extended to me a Christlike welcome, and I am grateful. May that spirit of welcome continue to animate all that Bethany does.

Blessings and peace,

Bill Rich

Transition Director